He that goes a borrowing goes a sorrowing.
(January 17, 1706 - April 17, 1790)
He who borrows sells his freedom
Follow thy fair sun, unhappy shadow.
(February 12, 1567 - March 01, 1620)
It's different for everybody. Everybody's just different. It's just a tough situation to deal with. You don't want to play unless you're ready.
If you want to reach a goal, you must 'see the reaching' in your own mind before you actually arrive at your goal.